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Learn to say no with grace and change your life for the better

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We read about this delicate subject but often don’t fully understand what it means. One day, you’ll face a situation where you want to say yes but need to say no, and then the understanding hits you. Let me explain.

When you read something like this, it really means learning to say no, especially in situations where you should say no but are tempted to say yes. Some common reasons that you may be tempted to say yes could be that you want to please someone or don’t want to hurt their feelings. In other words, you’re prioritizing their well-being over yours.

This doesn’t mean you should act only in your own self-interest. However, doing this is critical if you want to act reasonably in these situations where you don’t think it’s a good idea to say yes. Also, if you’re not adept at this skill, you may get caught in a situation where your schedule is overbooked, and you have no time for yourself. Sound familiar?

The same thing applies when you deal with clients. You get caught in situations where you shouldn’t accept something, but you don’t want to hurt the client’s feelings. However, deep down, you know the right answer is no, for everyone’s best interests.

I really wish we could all be alert enough to notice these situations, so it’s easier to catch ourselves before saying yes to everything, even if it harms us. Saying no is a great thing and can change your life for the better.